I have a friend who is on her 3rd pregnancy and this week she found out the sex of her baby. well she called me to tell me about it and how her doc appo went, well during the conversation she brought up that she heard from her husband (her husband and mine are brothers) that we have talked about having another baby. my husband and i have talked about it off and on over the past 4 yrs or so but haven't followed thru more so because of me and my worrying about having another baby. i was telling her that if i were to turn up pregnant at all in the future that i would need someone that i could turn too in my time of need, someone to call if my anxiety starts to get the better of me and so on. well i was a little bummed when i didn't get the response from her of "girl you know i will be there for you if you decide to have another baby" i got an "okay" and the subject was changed. is it weird that this is bothering me?