Hey everyone!! My name is Ada. Well I have and need a whole lot of advice. I was engaged to my fiance for about a year and he has a son which he never knew about until 7 months after our relationship began. I decided to stay and stick it through because I loved him and he loved me deeply. However, some weeks before our one year anniversary I found out I was pregnant and shocking to me he wanted me to get an abortion and do all these things. But I am my own woman, and didnt buy into it. He said if I dont get an abortion, we will break up. We eventually broke up, and these first 5 months he has not done anything towards the uprbringing of our daughter. I have had hospital visits and everything with being sick and he never came or replied any of messages when I informed him. I am turning 22 and will soon be a Physical Therapist and just wanted to get some information on how do I plan these next four months to make it a good year. I am happy I am giving birth into the summer. So I can focus on her.
But emotionally, physically, I feel really down. He doesnt do anything towards helping me. Rather he is in the lfie of his first child more, and disregards me. I have given up on him and feel he isnt ready to settle and from his behavior has moved on as he excercises his flirt and men behavior all around.
Would Love some blunt yet uplifting advice.