My boyfriend is pressuring me to have an abortion.

Don't ever get an abortion stay true! He is absoluetly selfish asking that out of you. He's acting like a child if didn't want a child he shouldn't had sex. Please don't have one you never know if this pregnancy is your chance at having a child and being a mother. Abortions can also carry a lot of risk.


If you believe that it is a human being/your child, than you must protect it from harm even before your child comes into this world. Yes, even from the baby's own father. This is not a form of love. I agree with other posters and it is time you protect the baby and yourself. You want to do it on your own, well, that is good but for both of you right now, you might need a helping hand. Do not look at it as you against the world and being totally grown up because later on in life you will notice that we all need a helping hand plus it is nothing shameful about it.
Take care of the precious life and yourself.......the two most important things right now in your life and forever.

You have your family, he needs to either stand behind what he originally said to you or back the hell off.
If he is being so immature now he might not change, or when he gets over his emotional tantrum he might be a great dad. But for now I would give a bit of distance to him if all he is going to be is immature, selfish, and cruel. You don't need that in your life.
Stand by your decision it was, is, and always will be YOURS to make, not his.
Hugs, not easy, but you can do this. If you need someone to talk with, let me know.

You have to do what is right for you. I am pro-life as well. It sounds like you have family support, I don't think you are being "selfish" or "immature".

- Bmat
Barb on Jan. 21, 2013 at 9:36 PMIt is OK to change your mind about this guy. He doesn't seem to care about you, and if he is calling you such names, you may want to rethink your relationship.