So there is a guy in my life. His life sucks. No lie, his life just went down the toilet. He has a new baby boy who is 3 months old and his BM will not let him see him. He fights with his BM but he she is his first love, and she is a major BITCH. He has no job, no car, no friends, nothing but a bag of clothing. He is a recovering drug addict and he has no place to live. This man is my DH's Best friend since childhood.
So this man has no where to go and been staying at our house for about a week now. Since he has been here he has not been doing drugs and he's just really sad. He has helped a lot he has cleaned my entire house and been pretty much pulling his weight about here helping me out with things. Actually my week has pretty much been watching movies, and playing with my baby.
I however, miss having my home. I feel bad for the guy, but don't want anyone moving in. He doesn't look like he is at all motivated to find somewhere else to go. I want my house back and I feel like an awful woman saying it because this guy has just a shitty life and he seems like he is trying to clean himself up.
I have 3 children and a newborn baby with Down Syndrome in my house and now I have their tio sleeping on the couch. There is no straight answer from my DH as to how long he will be there.
What should I do? I don't want this man living on the streets when the weather is freezing, and I don't want him going back to drugs. But I also want my family and our privacy back. I mean I like having time with just my family and not have company constantly. What should I do?