I have no idea what to do. i am so stressed out its rediculous. so me and my husband moved into his parents house after they moved to PA. we have been living here for 2 yrs we pay home owners insurance and land taxes and fix things when they are broke. ever since we moved in if they dont like how we do something or if we dont listen to exactly what they say they keep telling us we can just move out. the house is in their name but me and my husband do everything we are supposed to as home owners yet one minute they say its our house and we can do whatever the next the say its still their house and what they say goes. its not like we are tearing the place up or anything like that. this has been going on for 2yrs and i have had enough im ready to move out but its the house my husband helped build with his dad and was always promised to him. i dont want to leave but i can not continue to be unhappy. we are damned if we do and damned if we dont with everything. i am loosing my patience with my kids now bc of stress and everything im greatful for the house and everything they have givn us but i dont want them running our lives and dictating our every move. i feel like im being smothered and i try so hard to please them but nothing i do works. im at a loss. my kids are feeling the stress and anger i have and im to the point of seeing a phsycologist about this but i dont want it to come to that. should we just move and get away from the situation or should i just go to therepy and work it out with myself to stop worrying about all of this and get my emotions under control? sorry this is so long. i really need some advice.