I'm having an arguement with my husband and want to find out if he's right. I've been living with my parents since september, and only have a month and a half left til i join my husband in texas, My mom doesn't spend a lot of time with my kids she usually just passes through the house going to the basement or her room. when my kids want to talk or play with her its around 5 min then she gives them candy or something else so she can leave. I say it's normal for a grandma to be like this when grandkids live with them, and my husband says it's not. Is it normal?