So my two oldest (dd -5 and ds-4) have been sleeping in bed with my dh and I since they were about 4 or 5 months old. I think its time to make the switch for all of our sakes and my husband does not agree.. He is always so worried. Their rooms are right down the hall from ours, a matter of feet literally.. But he is such a protective man with all of us that he refuses to let them in there own beds. HELP! I need that private space with my husband. Hes currently stationed in Arizona and will be home soon, so when he gets here I want it to be just us in our bed but I know he wont. How do I go about getting him to see where Im coming from? We also have a 6 month old baby boy who is in his own crib and I refuse to start him in our bed like my husband wants..