The cousin that molested me is coming to my house :(
Fast forward to today: my grandmother (84 yo)came to visit us for the weekend. She's in the country for a couple of months. My cousin phones to find out when she can come and visit them and she insists I speak to him.
Long story short, after 3 phone calls and a conversation with my dad, they've decided it would be a good idea for him to pick her up from MY house... Now don't get me wrong I feel no hate towards this man, I have forgiven him and moved on with my life, however I would not hesitate to testify against him if it ever came to that. This does not mean that I want him close to my family. My daughter is 7 months old, and I never anticipated her meeting him, EVER... As for DH, I'm not quite sure how he feels about this situation.
I guess I just feel a little bit stunned and annoyed... How far do we go in covering this whole situation up for the sake of my grandmother? If ever we meet a family member ie 'this is your 2nd cousin twice removed' we are expected to kiss hello and again with goodbye... I'm sorry, but I'm just not willing to go that far.
Ugh, this is going to be a tough situation... I'm going to have to invite him in for coffee (its a couple of hours drive) and then have him SIT on my couch. Ugh, I don't know... Sorry, vent over.
Oh, and don't bash me for not having him locked up. I was a child when this all happened and that's been dealt with as far as I'm concerned...