My xhusvand and I have been divorced 4years. Bad divorce, alot of complications, but regardless of our battles, i NEVER rejected or interfered with our kids visitation. I VERY CONCERNED THOU! My two oldest daughteres found pornogrophy in his room and they are uneasy being around their dad. He usnt someone who i can talk to at all cuz he blames me for everything. I understand my daughters
One of the reasons y I left him, apart from the abuse was his perversion. My girls are older now and when they found these videos they were shocked and their traumatised. Ive mentioned years before about his perversion n they put it aside. Now with this I dont know what to do. :( i dont want my girls to feel that i didnt try to protect them, but if the courts say they have to see their dad n their dad saying he will call the cops on me for not letting him see our kids. I jyst want to PROTECT MY KIDS. PLEASE HELP. THANK U.
One of the reasons y I left him, apart from the abuse was his perversion. My girls are older now and when they found these videos they were shocked and their traumatised. Ive mentioned years before about his perversion n they put it aside. Now with this I dont know what to do. :( i dont want my girls to feel that i didnt try to protect them, but if the courts say they have to see their dad n their dad saying he will call the cops on me for not letting him see our kids. I jyst want to PROTECT MY KIDS. PLEASE HELP. THANK U.
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This and did they watch the movies?
Quoting Jers.:Why kind of porn was it that was so perverted?
What were the girls doing in his room?
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on Jan. 28, 2013 at 1:29 PM
I dont understand what the problem is. Did he have the porn put up in his room or just laying around for them to see? Is he sexually inappropriate with your dds? Why would your girls think you werent protecting them? I get nobody wants their kids to find their porno stash but seems like this was just an embarrassing moment unless your leaving part of the story out. How old are your girls (you stated that they are older now) that they are traumatized over this?
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on Jan. 31, 2013 at 4:46 PM
My girls are 14 and 12 years old. I was concerned cuz years ago my oldest at age 10, had found a porn tape and just what she saw on the covr of it was shocking to her. I put her in counsling due to my divorce n this incident came up n her therapist mentioned it was considered child abuse. At the time i was still in talking terms w my x and let him know. Now, years hv pasted n now my second girl also sees it. N shes uncomfortable being around her dad. N my oldest as well. She mentions she tries not to stand in front if him cuz she feels as if hes checking her out. Im just concerned.
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on Jan. 31, 2013 at 4:48 PM
Thanks anyways. Ill just get legal help....
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A question for those who have kids close in age..
When was your due date and when did you give birth?
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on Jan. 27, 2013 at 7:37 PM