My mom will be 60 on March 20th (a Wednesday). I was going to throw her a surprise party on the 16th. My DD's birthday is the 13th of March (also a Wednesday). I was going to have her party the 15th in the evening. I get paid the 15th so my paycheck would go towards both parties.
Well mom informed me she might have to have foot surgery again & has scheduled it for the 13th (she may not even need it but scheduled just incase because my dad is taking time off work for this).
Mom wants me to have DD's birthday party the weekend BEFORE DD's birthday. Which is not a payday for me. Clearly I can't tell her there was a reason I need her to be "available" on the 16th!
My thought was to have DD's birthday the weekend before (like mom suggested) using money from my paycheck I will get on March 1st & then have mom's party on March 23rd using my paycheck on the 15th for that.
If anyone else has suggestions PLEASE feel free!!!