For the first time in my working life I got written up! EVERYTHING on that write up was hearsay! Most of it I listened and said I would do better. However, when the read 2 parts of it my blood started boiling.
1. My client and I were eating off the same plate using different forks. First off I KNOW better than to do that and secondly that client does NOT use a fork! ALL his food is finger foods that he can pick with his fingers!!
2. My personal hygiene....I SMELL!!! WTF?!?! I DO NOT SMELL!! I bathe twice a day! I use plenty of deodorant and body spray!!!
I refused to sign the write up. That is my right. 2 days later I went to my bosses boss and told her the whole story. She said she would check into it. Evidently she did and my bosses(2) have been totally different to me. Then yesterday a co-worker told me she overheard 2 other people discussing the fact that I smelled(again). When I asked who it was she wouldn't tell me. I had my suspicions-this morning they were confirmed. Or I am 99% certain. I went straight to the HR lady. I told her and we had a 15-20 minute conversation. At the end of it she said she didn't smell anything but a scent of vanilla body spray. I told her who I thought it was and she said she would not it in her files. I was VERY mad and she knew it! I wanted to go bloody the nose of the one who said it but I would have gotten fired and I am not 100% certain it is her. She told me not to confront her or say anything to her. IF I hear anything else about me smelling come straight to her! She feels like someone is just wanting to start trouble! Several of my co-workers and friends backed me up and told our immediate bosses that I did not smell. I feel like I cannot let this go!! Can I do anything to her? Anonymously or face-to-face?