Kids asking if and calling my son Gay...is this a form of bullying?
My son is 12 yrs old. He has never been interested in too much sports. He enjoys swimming, did golf in the past and loved it but he is more interested in music, art and anything creative. He acts a lot more mature than I have seen boys his age acting. He doesn't tease people or like anything that makes someone feel bad. I know its easy to say so many good things about your kid but he really is and tries to be "the good guy". I get compliments from other parents and adults on how well mannered he is. Because of these things other kids say that he is gay or they ask him if he is. We have raised our children to always respect others lifestyle. My son understands that being gay isn't a bad thing and we have always been very open with him about questions and the fact that we too respect peoples lifestyle choices. However my son does not like that kids are saying this, asking it and assuming it. He feels judged just because he isn't into certain things and just because he is being himself he is being labeled something that I don't even think he would begin to know if he is or isn't right now. He knows that no matter what he would choose in life that he would be loved unconditionally and supported so it isn't a fear or a worry of what he may or may not be, its more of what he is dealing with because of ignorance. I just don't know what step to take next. Do I press an issue with the school? He feels that he needs to start being something different because of these assumptions.