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Need help on how to deal with offensive people at my kids school.

Posted by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:10 PM
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 I am a lesbian and have been with my partner since we were both 15. We have been together for ten years and have 6 kids. My son is 6 and in the first grade. His homework assignment was to bring in a poster with pictures of his family members and to label who they were for family night. He worked so hard on his poster and was excited to take it to school.

When we got to school the teacher asked all the kids to hang their posters up so everyone could see. Another parent commented that my son shouldn't receive full credit for his poster because it has 2 mothers on it instead of a mom and dad. She then told her son not to sit by or play with my son because he carries the gay disease on his clothes. But then she didn't understand why this was rude to say in front of my son or in front of me. Do you find this rude? How would you react if someone said this to you or your child?

Let me just say that I am used to being judged for being who I am and being gay. But I never expected my 6 year old would have to deal with it at school.

by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:10 PM
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Judesmom333
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:12 PM
how do you have a 6 yr old if you and your partner have been together 10 yrs.?
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prp2014
by Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:16 PM
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There is many ways to have kids. He was born from a sperm donor as was 2 of his younger brothers.

hollydaze1974
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:23 PM
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Did you actually ask that? O_o

Quoting Judesmom333:

how do you have a 6 yr old if you and your partner have been together 10 yrs.?
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atlmom2
by Ruby Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:23 PM
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6 kids and 25. Wow.
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woodswalker
by Bronze Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:26 PM
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That is horrible!  Of course its rude.  I live in the five college area of Western Mass and there are so many families around here led by gay parents

Did the teacher speak up if she heard this mom?  IF not, she should have.  What the woman said was not only ignorant towards you but to any other kids who are being raised in non-traditional families--single parents, guardians, fosters....

I have a feeling your kids will  be running into this type of ignorance a lot.  The best thing to do would be to prepare them for it by being honest with them about the kind of family yours is and why some people feel it's not right.

Mommy2justone
by Mommy2justtwo on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:27 PM
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Really?????
eye rolling 


Quoting Judesmom333:

how do you have a 6 yr old if you and your partner have been together 10 yrs.?


melissaaytes
by Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:27 PM
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Idiots!!!  Slap that bitch loL!!  Yes it is very rude and inappropriate!!  

prp2014
by Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:27 PM
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Two of the are my nephews who we have custody of. Don't judge before you know the facts.

Quoting atlmom2:

6 kids and 25. Wow.


 

snowangel1979
by Silver Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:28 PM
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IDK that's a hard one. How rude of her. Unfortunately all you can do is probably talk to your son about it, he's going to have to deal with rude comments from stupid people.
Maybe talk to the teacher and she can have a talk with the class about the different kinds of families. Or have her talk to the mother.

I'm not saying to do this but the first thing that crossed my mind is to go up to her and touch her.
Ask her to please respect your adult decision and not bring your sons into it. Then touch her and laugh telling her Ohh I'm sorry I touched you - whispering "I hope I didn't give you the gay." LOL.
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strictmomhere
by Platinum Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 1:30 PM
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I would of told that bitch mom off that was very rude
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