i have an 11 y.o. 4 y.o. 3y.o., 1.5 y.o., and a 2 month old. my 11 is a picky eater. i know i control what he eats at home but at school and my mom's house he doesn't good. even though i have told my mom not to let him eat junk he still does. i try to get him out to get some physical activity but it's a struggle. i was over weight my whole childhood and don't want him to go through what i went through. i'm pretty much on my own as far as the kids go since my husband works all the time. any suggestions as to how i can get him to eat better an exercise? please don't judge me or bash me i know it is up to me to give him healthy choices.