Feeling Defeated.. Mom to a 4 1/2 year old
Hi Moms! I'm feeling so defeated lately and have no clue what to do.. I need advice! Awhile back, my son was having problems at school, hitting, biting, kicking, etc... I got a call from the daycare supervisor saying they we would have to take him somewhere else. After speaking with her some more we came to an agreement that we had 30 days to straighten out his behaviour. We took away toys & tv, if we had to ask him to do something more than once he would be put in a time out, and we read books on respecting others. Everything has been perfect since then! I mean, he's still had his moments but no more than any other little boy. Again yesterday, I got a call from the supervisor.. when a little girl tried to go in the fort he threatened to punch her in the face, at clean up time he'll hide in the bathroom or go out to his locker and he's been talking back. His toys were gone that night and no tv.. we threatened to not let him go to this Birthday party on the weekend. Today I called to see how things were going and one of the teachers said 'horrible.' He was choking a kid, when asked why he did it he said he was hugging him from behind, he hasn't been listening and not cleaning again. He will NOT be attending the Birthday party this weekend but what else can I do?!