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Does using tampons mess up a young girl's virginity?

My niece Leila is 14 years old and ever since her mom (my brother's wife) passed away, I've been there for her and I have loved her like my own child. She got her first period when she was 13 and she recently asked me if she could use tampons instead of pads because she wants to join the school swimteam next year. 

I've heard rumours that if you use tampons, you aren't a virgin anymore. My mom told me that when I was Leila's age and I obeyed her. I didn't use tampons until college, a couple months after I lost my virginity.

Of course, times have changed since then, but I still have my doubts.

What do you guys think? Does using tampons mess up a young girl's virginity?

by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 10:52 PM
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BlondeMommy18
by on Mar. 18, 2013 at 3:14 PM

This exactly. Except I was younger when I lost my virginity

Quoting mylilgooberpea:

I lost my hymen using a tampon. Hurt like heck! Sex would have been even more painful my first time if it hadnt. I was a virgin till I was 20. So there you go. First hand account.


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