I sat him down n told him abt it he said he was joking n wen I asked him abt the porn movie he kept quiet n I insisted for an answer n he fought with me we used fight daily abt it I told him to dlt her of bbm n remove her numb. Which he did
a month later he went for training lied to me his going alone n was checking his phone n he had msgs to a another friend that she is with him he admitted he went with her but I was hurt that he lied to me we started fighting I accused him he hit me his mother n family got involved n mentioned it was a mistake getting us married n made it seem like I was at fault.
his sister gave him a choice to live separate n still support the child n he just kept quiet...his mother n sister tells me what to do all the time when to feed my child what she should wear they are like verbal reminders they tell my husband what to do and he listens to them yet he hardly listens to me I cnt trust my husband anymore n I forgave him but every time we argue I think of all these things n it works me up its eating me up inside I dnt wanna loose my husband
I'm so helpless plz help me find a way to trust him and a way to make him consider me as his wife in his life we spoke abt it so many times but that didn't work he refuses to go for counseling