Alright so....yes, this is a personal question but I REALLY would love any helpful answer. I recently started a dating a really nice guy, and for those single moms out there, you know it's hard to find a nice guy that doesn't get scared off when he finds out you have a kid.
We've been hanging out for about a month now and the other night we finally were able to...eh hem..."get it in." The only problem is, he's used to (for lack of a better term) raw-dogging it, when I insisted on using a condom. I'm not on birth control and I learned my lesson the first time...I'm not ready for another kid!!!!! He wasn't able to finish and quite honestly it made me feel like I was incompetant; like I didn't fulfill my womanly duties in pleasuring him like I'm supposed to....I've NEVER not had a man finish so I immediatly felt insecure feeling like I'm just not sexy enough (this guy is drop dead sexy too btw).
The second condom we used, ultra thin, was too small and was uncomfortable for him...again, he didn't finish!!
I'm just curious if anyone else has had this problem. I know if guys are not used to wearing a "rain coat" that it's harder for them to finish wearing one...especially when they haven't worn one in a long time (I also don't know what kinds of girls he's slept with "raw-dogging it" so that's also another reason why I want him to wear protection.
Do you have any suggestions as to what brand/type of condom to use? I want him to feel pleasured and I'm starting to feel embarrassed it hasn't happend and since we aren't officially together, I'm afraid he'll find another skank that won't care about using protection....and I actually really like this guy.