I have 3 children , 1 yr old ds , 8 yr old dd and 10 yr old ds. We were planning our son's 1st b-day to which we would go out to a buffet pay for everyone and have cake there. well the 1st 2 dates I picked everyone canceled last minute. we changed it to this sunday and guess what ? here we are on tuesday and everyone cancelling. my son's birthday has already passed and now everyone is arguing over the date, we pushed it to mid march b/c we are waiting on our taxes and none of his will RSVP so we know who to pay for. I am considering just cancelling it and inviting those that we know won't cause trouble ( just friends) but dh is mad over that option however I dont see any other option b/c no one wants to RSVP to give us a head count.
anyone agree ? wwyd ?