Disappointed and taking child out of daycare UPDATE
OK everyone thank you all for your advice. I did contact her and told her I will not be taking my son to her daycare anymore. When I mentioned the daycare social and how we never got an invite she said she did invite me and my husband but we removed ourselves from the event. Which is a lie. We never did that. And if it did happen on "Accident" I could see maybe one of us did but how could we both accidentally do it without knowing. Also why would she go out of her way to hide posts from us about the reminders for the daycare social the day before. I know she hides people from posts cause she has posted things before and said she hid her kids or boyfriend from it. My friend was on her page and could see it and when me and my husband went on her page we did not see the post but saw her other posts that were not related to the social. So he will not be going there. We plan on moving away to Idaho soon anyways so he would have been taken out eventually.
I know some did not agree and thought I was overreacting which is ok. Its hard to understand the situation when you really dont know her. but she owns an inhome daycare(11 kids attend) we have been with her for almost 4 years cause I do have an older son. We have been to every previous event which is usually 1 maybe 2 a year. She is all about her daycare and includes everyone. Except this time she included all the kids except my son. I thought it was strange, unprofessional, and not right. If it was some birthday party for her kid and she invited some people from daycare I wouldnt care but when it is a DAYCARE SOCIAL and my son is part of the daycare and is not included thats not right. So just thought i would update you all. Thanks again:)
ok so I think you went about it the wrong way. I told you to talk to her about it but just because it's a confrontation {well more of an inquery} doesn't mean you should satrt off accusing. You should have just started off simply questioning and giving her the benefit of the doubt. " I noticed that you were doing a party and we were not invited. was this by mistake? Did I do something to offend you? We would really love to be apart of this picnic and have been with you guys for a long time. Please let me know if there are some issues you would like addressed. I hope it was a mistake, if not I feel sad. Please talk to me about it, thanks~your name here...etc" just an example. Sometimes we assume the worst and build it up in our head then we cause more problems by not having communicated. been there done that. this email you wrote would have been a good follow up for something...if u were to get deeper into it and felt the need to show you were annoyed etc. does that make sense? sorry for what you are dealing with. hope it gets better. HUGS
A question for those who have kids close in age..
When was your due date and when did you give birth?
- Caitlinmari
on Feb. 21, 2013 at 12:20 AM