I haven't decided if I want to know the sex of my 2nd child. I know my husband does, so I told him to have the u/s tech tell him while I'm not in the room. or hoqwever they do it. I'm really hoping for a girl, but my first is a boy and times are just now getting better financially so we can deal with getting girls' clothes. We already have boys' clothes 6mo and up. I wanted to keep all the boy s clothes just in case we have a nother boy, but my husbands brother had a boy and hardly had any clothes for his son, and we gave all we have from newborn to 3-6 months. so getting clothes up til then wont be bad either. but thats now my issues sorry for dragging you on.
i'm indecisive- would you rather have a neutral shower and not know til the baby's born OR would you rather have your family surprise you and when your baby shower comes around and have them tell you by getting the gender specific items particular to the gender and let me know.
I plan on a gender neutral shower either way, and I'm leaning more towards the "Surprise, it's a girl/boy?" shower. What do you all think?
EDIT to keep me from knowing what gender of my baby is at first glance, ill write in the invite to make the packaging gender neutral. just thought of that. I don't need too much stuff for the second just clothes burp cloths basinet and some little stuff like that. that's just another reason why I'm not having an actual baby shower but more like a bbq. idk I got lots of time!! heck I'm only 13 weeks!! but it did go by really fast so far. lol