I am disabled due to a car accident and back problems. I am a single mom and have a 6 year old and 18 year old boys. He is saying I am unfair. He is a senior but only has a few more months and has not even started college prep much. So I am asking...
1. If he isn't working (he is looking for a job) what is expected for household help that would be fair?
2. If I need him to watch my youngest is it fair? Should he get paid?
3. Do you restrict how much internet/gaming a 18 year old does?
4. How do you handle disrespect, lying, not coming home when he says, and swearing?
5. What are some consequences I can do if he doesn't do what is expected?
I am at my wits end.