I was with my ex husband for 10 years. 3 years ago we split up. Long story short, he has primary physical custody of our 3 kids and we have joint legal custody.
He lives with his mother, our 3 kids, and his girlfriend. His father passed away about 2 months ago, and since then my oldest daughter (almost 11) has been sleeping in bed with his mother (her grandmother).
I can understand if she wakes up at night and is upset and goes to her room to sleep with her, but she starts out in bed with her every night. When she is here, so won't go to sleep anywhere but in my bedroom on the floor. She is almost 11, and we have never had problems with this before.
I asked him why isn't she sleeping in her own bed and he said "She isn't in any danger or harm. And it is at my house so there for it is none of ur business" (his exact words, uneducated at he may be)
What do I do here? He is ignorant