I've been a stay at home mom now for 7 years, with the understanding that I would get a smaller part time job when the time was right for the kids to transition. My youngest starts school full time next year and my Hubby is telling me I better have a job lined up by September or have a class in place I can take. He recently started talking about refinancing and that he was going to do it before April so he could get into the lower interest rates. This started my looking through all the important papers gathering whatever we would need and I came accross the papers from the last time we refied and apparantly I signed a Quit Claim Deed, against my knowledge, my dumb mistake I should have read what i was signing rather then I guess trust my husband and the refi people. I brought this to his attention and he didn't seem to care at all. This started a huge fight and the worst weekend of my life. I told him that I wasn't okay working and helping pay the mortgage if he wasn't going to fix it. It's a simple fix of filling out a form and paying a few dollars to add me back. He said it was never going to happen, EVER! So now i'm expected to bring in a 1,000+ a month, put my kids in daycare and he doesn't even want to hear my side of any of it. I don't honestly know what to do in this situation. I love him to death but I can't pretend to be okay with any of this. I have tried talking to him about this a million times now and his attitude hasn't seemed to change, if anything maybe getting worse saying we can always have seperate bank accounts and I can start supporting myself, or when the time comes I can buy my own car if i want it in my name and get my own auto insurance. I just have no clue what has happened to the man I married, he has done a complete turn around in attitude and totally going back on all the things we talked about and decided on since before we were even married! Help I need mega advice!!!