Long sorry...I want to be petty so bad...talk me down.
Before she left, we got into a couple of fights. She said some mean things to me, for no reason. We normally get a long great! It hurt when she said them and then NEVER apologized. I chalked it up as her pre deployment stuff and *tried* to move on. It's been about 3 months into her deployment. We have talked a little over messaging but its not what it was before :( I have sent a package or two. Christmas and my kids birthdays came and went and auntie didn't send anything their way (neither did her husband who is home with the kids). I made sure I sent something for them! They are my niece and nephew, and even though we have been arguing, I wouldn't neglect the kids at bdays or Christmas.
My sister skypes everyone but me. So I messaged her and say hey, I know we are not a priority but I know the kids would love to Skype with you! She completely ignores it.
I am just so tired of reaching out....especially when she was so hurtful to me before. I don't wanna send anymore packages (I actually have a box of stuff ready to go!) or try to reach out. I just feel like bein totally petty to her right now, like I feel the way she has treated me. I know I should (and want) to take the high road here and keep on, but I just feel like she doesn't care about me nor does she want to be friendly. I just hate it because my sister and I used to be really close.
I probably sound like an awful person since she is deployed and away from her babies but she sure seems to be jokey and friendly with everyone but me. I don't and won't get on her while she is deployed, I guess I need help dealing.