My son is 8 and has an incomplete right hand so buttoning and snapping has always been a little difficult for him. He hates to wear button shirts and used to hate wearing zip/button pants but in the past year we have only let him wear his comfy pull-on pants once or twice a week. My question is are we being overly hard on him or should we keep "raising the bar" so to speak. The big issue now is button shirts. He is fine with polos or a shirt with just a couple buttons on top but when it comes to dressier shirts that obviously have more than a couple buttons, he strongly dislikes them. Is it mean of me to buy him the shirts & ask that he wear them once or twice a week, to church or whatever ?