Yes i'd be super pissed. It's partly why I won't let dh's family take dd out, I have a feeling they will try to pierce her ears because they keep talking about it, although me and dh are still iffy about doing it.
Yep. I would be mad. I would tell grandma she can not have her for a while with out you or dh around.
I would be angry and then get over it by no unsupervised visits for awhile. You can still have a first hair cut later on as she starts to get her big girl hair in.
That was very disrespectful of them to do that. Anything that involves changing your child's appearance should be you and her father's decision, they had no right to do that to her and to you. I would go to grandma and lay down the law-she is only going to be allowed supervised visitation for the next 6 months, and then when you feel you can trust her she will have to promise not to alter her in any way. Allow only short visits without you, like an hour or so. She is your child and you have a right to keep her safe. Best of luck, thankful my family would never do anything like that. Ask if she kept any hair, if not then I say just move on and pretend she never got a hair cut (she didn't by you so it does not count), her uneven hair will grow quickly. Then when you are ready do a real haircut at a salon and save that hair for her book.
How do you deal with a potty mouth?!
- Hero1059
on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:08 PM