should i tell him?? WWYD


Quoting ali840:
Relationships are all about honesty, communication, and working through things together. Use this as an opportunity to do those things. Also, I know this is crazy, but consider getting married before having a baby together?



you should tell him...why start a new relationship built on deceit?

I would tell him. He has a right to know. Besides, having him there for you and you for him, would probably help right now.

As for telling him , I would. No need to keep it to your self. Especially if you were talking about having kids in the future
Quoting LilDzMamma2010:
i am on BC.
Quoting Zazayam:I would tell him, and get on some form of birth control.

Can I ask why? Why would you not want to get married if you have talked about having babies? Marriage gets a bad rap these days, but it's still really important to a stable family. Marriage provides both parties with a support system they can rely on. It's just a whole other level of commitment. Why would you not want that if you have children together? My husband and I got married and got pregnant right away. Those first few years were really tough and I can honestly say that if we hadn't been married one of us probably would have left. But we didn't because we were married. Now 2 children later we're coming up on our 10th anniversary this summer. I'm so happy with him and my kids have a secure, stable home life where they know nobody is going anywhere.
Quoting LilDzMamma2010:
neither of us want marriage but thanks :-)
Quoting ali840:
Relationships are all about honesty, communication, and working through things together. Use this as an opportunity to do those things. Also, I know this is crazy, but consider getting married before having a baby together?
- AM-BRAT
Amber on Mar. 19, 2013 at 8:01 PM