should i tell him?? WWYD

Quoting frndlyfn:

I would tell him so perhaps he can be more vigilant in using protection as well or slow down the relationship to presex status for awhile.

Relationships are all about honesty, communication, and working through things together. Use this as an opportunity to do those things. Also, I know this is crazy, but consider getting married before having a baby together?

neither of us want marriage but thanks :-)

Quoting ali840:

Relationships are all about honesty, communication, and working through things together. Use this as an opportunity to do those things. Also, I know this is crazy, but consider getting married before having a baby together?

Tell him and you can grieve together. And good luck!

Tell him and you can grieve together. And good luck!

Sorry for your lost. You should tell him. You both are in the relationship. This might be a helpful insight to how you deal with future issues.

you should tell him...why start a new relationship built on deceit?

I would tell him. He has a right to know. Besides, having him there for you and you for him, would probably help right now.

You better change then or start using condoms.
As for telling him , I would. No need to keep it to your self. Especially if you were talking about having kids in the future

Quoting LilDzMamma2010:

i am on BC.

Quoting Zazayam:

I would tell him, and get on some form of birth control.

 Can I ask why? Why would you not want to get married if you have talked about having babies? Marriage gets a bad rap these days, but it's still really important to a stable family. Marriage provides both parties with a support system they can rely on. It's just a whole other level of commitment. Why would you not want that if you have children together? My husband and I got married and got pregnant right away. Those first few years were really tough and I can honestly say that if we hadn't been married one of us probably would have left. But we didn't because we were married. Now 2 children later we're coming up on our 10th anniversary this summer. I'm so happy with him and my kids have a secure, stable home life where they know nobody is going anywhere.

Quoting LilDzMamma2010:

neither of us want marriage but thanks :-)

Quoting ali840:

Relationships are all about honesty, communication, and working through things together. Use this as an opportunity to do those things. Also, I know this is crazy, but consider getting married before having a baby together?