Our parents will be flying up to be there but they all haven't been on a vacation in yeeeears so this will be well deserved.
My hubby's step mom and dad are the ones who watches Zayden for me when I go to work, but recently every time i have been asking him if he wants to go to "nanas or papas" he screams and cries and says no. I take him over there and now it's a constant battle. The second we pull up, he'll start whining. He won't act like this with his "gammy" though who he always wants to see. (He is a really big clinger to me keep in mind)
I think it's because they are lazy over there and do not interact with him. He goes over there and plays with the same toys by himself. So I've been hesitant about wanting to let them keep him the 4-5 days.
Nick, my hubby's, sweet sweet Gma who is great with kids is visiting and staying with his aunt and her daughter (who has two girls zaydens age and is a great mom) and is begging me to let them keep him while were gone. I am really thinking about it, it's just, the only thing is he doesn't know them that well and has only been to their place only a few times, where as, he goes to "nana and papas" house every week.
I feel like he will be less miserable there with my hubbies Gma and the kids since he'll have a swing set , people to interact with him, and other kids to play with. BUT then again i am afraid he will freak out and think I'm leaving him for good since its a new place with new people he's not used to yet :( :( :(. And I really really don't want my baby thinking I'm leaving him. It's making me emotional thinking about it!!!
Which place do you think would be best for him to take him too?
Sorry this is so long mamas