My kids dad and his new gf of 2 months thinks its okay for my 2 kids to call her mom, just because they call there step dad dad. I don't know if its just me but I don't want them to call her mom. Hell he cant even make up his mind if its going to work out between them two! He is letting her get involved in schooling issues that i don't think she needs to be a part of as well. I am at my wits end with this and I am about to go bat shit crazy!!! I have tried to talk to them but have gotten no were with it!! Please help!!!!!!
Okay so i am guessing some ppl are not understanding this Its not that I would mind after they are married for them to call her mom because I do know where I stand in my kids life! I know how my babies feel about me! I just think 2 months is to soon! My son didn't call his step dad dad until after we were married and my daughter was 9 months old when me and my husband met she has had both in her life and chooses to call both dad. me and the bio dad talked about all of this when it was going on and at the time me and my DH were a year in a half into our relationship when we were married now 2 and a half years later both of the kids know that they have all of us in their life and are not going anywhere. I just want to make sure that they are planing to be together for a long time before they call her mom because i don't want broken hearts if it ends so soon.