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I recently had to give up my child for adoption having a hard time with it

Posted by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 11:52 AM
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hi I'm a 27 year old mother of two,...
Things have been really hard, there's not much work. I remember back when I had my first son, it was easy to get a job if you wanted long hours you got it if you didn't want a day off you got it. And hard times like now you are lucky to find a job and around here you work part time, anyways ....I'll get on with my
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thickmamaof2
by Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 11:53 AM
I'm sorry. Are you in counseling?
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nonnarae
by Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 11:54 AM
You gave up your third child? All you can do is your best! Just take things day by day? Was it open or close adoption?
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123proudmom1234
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 11:58 AM
Story. I recently place my son up for adoption because I knew I could provide a good life for him. And I did not want to take away from her 2 kids are already have. I have lots of reasons why I did it, but that could take all day. The day I went into labor my heart started to break my liver was hard I could not believe the pain I was in, but what hurt most was knowing I had to give you up. See until then I thought it was going to be easy, I had made up my mind that he was going to have a good life


Quoting 123proudmom1234:

hi I'm a 27 year old mother of two,...

Things have been really hard, there's not much work. I remember back when I had my first son, it was easy to get a job if you wanted long hours you got it if you didn't want a day off you got it. And hard times like now you are lucky to find a job and around here you work part time, anyways ....I'll get on with my

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123proudmom1234
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 12:03 PM
my son got placed with very loving parents. I miss him a lot, but I feel like doing the right thing, I just miss him I don't know how to stop hurting that's the point of my story how do I cope with loss, I don't regret what I did I feel good about it, I think I cry cuz I'm happy hi is in a good place. But I can't stop crying please help


Quoting 123proudmom1234:

Story. I recently place my son up for adoption because I knew I could provide a good life for him. And I did not want to take away from her 2 kids are already have. I have lots of reasons why I did it, but that could take all day. The day I went into labor my heart started to break my liver was hard I could not believe the pain I was in, but what hurt most was knowing I had to give you up. See until then I thought it was going to be easy, I had made up my mind that he was going to have a good life




Quoting 123proudmom1234:

hi I'm a 27 year old mother of two,...


Things have been really hard, there's not much work. I remember back when I had my first son, it was easy to get a job if you wanted long hours you got it if you didn't want a day off you got it. And hard times like now you are lucky to find a job and around here you work part time, anyways ....I'll get on with my


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123proudmom1234
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 12:09 PM
First it was closed, but when I was asked if I wanted to met the parents. I said yes I want that reassurance. At first I wanted just to give him up, and never see him again. but while in labor I couldn't help but think about what you was going to look like, so I decided then that I wanted to at least receive pictureso


Quoting nonnarae:

You gave up your third child? All you can do is your best! Just take things day by day? Was it open or close adoption?

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123proudmom1234
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 12:12 PM
Its only been 3 weeks and I know it's not going to go away overnight but I cannot stop crying I'm thankful that my 2 sons are too young to understand


Quoting 123proudmom1234:

First it was closed, but when I was asked if I wanted to met the parents. I said yes I want that reassurance. At first I wanted just to give him up, and never see him again. but while in labor I couldn't help but think about what you was going to look like, so I decided then that I wanted to at least receive pictureso




Quoting nonnarae:

You gave up your third child? All you can do is your best! Just take things day by day? Was it open or close adoption?


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123proudmom1234
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 12:16 PM
Its only been 3 weeks and I know it's not going to go away overnight but I cannot stop crying I'm thankful that my 2 sons are too young to understand I just want to stop hurting


Quoting 123proudmom1234:

First it was closed, but when I was asked if I wanted to met the parents. I said yes I want that reassurance. At first I wanted just to give him up, and never see him again. but while in labor I couldn't help but think about what you was going to look like, so I decided then that I wanted to at least receive pictureso




Quoting nonnarae:

You gave up your third child? All you can do is your best! Just take things day by day? Was it open or close adoption?


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123proudmom1234
by on Mar. 26, 2013 at 12:19 PM
Not yet .... But I'm thinking about going


Quoting thickmamaof2:

I'm sorry. Are you in counseling?

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thickmamaof2
by Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 12:22 PM
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You should! It will help you.also look for adoption support groups.

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Not yet .... But I'm thinking about going




Quoting thickmamaof2:

I'm sorry. Are you in counseling?

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Bknotnobody
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2013 at 12:24 PM
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Hugs. It's hard momma. Seek counseling it should help mainly I mean with women who have been in your shoes. I can relate to this, it's been 8 years and I remember how hard it was.
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