Okay ladies I am going to make this as short as possible. My husband and I have been together for 27 yrs now and we keep having this argument.
He says we don't have sex enough and I say we do. I have tried to tell him that "hey, I need some attention not just sex" he says that two different things. I say one is connected to the other. We barely talk to each other. We just discuss family things, the kids and watch TV. He doesn't like to do any of the things I like to do because it involves being around other people and I cannot stand doing some of his things.Fishing, hiking, shooting and out door stuff.
So tell me Does one lead to the other or not? I think it does, because if I feel close to him, then maybe i would be willing to have sex more often. He says that I am not affectionate, well neither is he. We still kiss and hug every nite before bed and when we leave for work etc....
What do you think?