BIRTH CONTROL need some advice! i dont trust anything
Hey so me and my husbands sex life is pretty much non existent since we are so scared of getting pregnant. I have a 9 month old daughter and now after having a baby I am extremely fertile. I have been pregnant twice since having my first baby and chose to end those pregnancies. please dont judge me i know its a hard topic for some people. i did not enjoy doing it at all, especially when I had to the second time i was very upset, but i do believe its a womans right to chose. im not stupid, these were just honest mistakes and it is much too soon for me to have another child. anyway we use condoms for birth control and nothing else, i know now especially that condoms can not be very reliable. i dont want to go on the pill because i am constantly hearing about all these health problems they can cause, and i have seen recalls for just about every single brand out there. i have also considered nuvaring and mirena, but i am just not comfortable with something inside my body at all times like that. pretty much every single form of birth control has some type of health risk or horrible side effect, so im lost on what to do. anyone have any advice? im figuring i will just use condoms and be extra careful since we dont have sex often anyway.