someone give me advice please!(lazy father)
okay so i have been with my boyfriend a little over a year now, when we met i was working. well i got pregnant and we decided to move to an apt, so i had to quit my job so we could move but was assured he would be working to support us,my son and the baby. well, he has bounced from job to job, working at pizza places for a short time then "getting fired". he is a medical assistent and keeps hoping to find a job in his field but is having no luck. in the mean time i ave told him to just get something to pay the bills, so he goes to different interviews and they want to hire him, but then he "forgets to go" or "they said they will call and dont". we had to pay the last two months rent with my tax return to give him time to et a job to cover this month, well he oce again has no job.
i really dont know what to do, we have a 7 month lease and have been late every month, i spent all my return on rent so we werent evicted and now we are still strugging to make ends meet. we have two kids to support and being pregnant i was not being hired and i would like to stay home with the kids, but if he wont get a job the only solution is for me to get a job.
i am thinking of giving the altimatum that if he wont find a job by the end of our lease me and the kids are going back to my moms and he can figure things out for himself, i cant live this way anymore, i used to be able to shower my toddler and get him everything he needs, now we are doing good scrapping the money together for diapers. i dont want to have my kids suffer because their dad(step dad/biological) is being lazy.
someone help give me some advice, i love him very much, but my kids come first.