Just moved from WI to ID. I had a post on here before.But now me and my husband are arguing. He got let go from his job in WI when he was trying to transfer with it to ID so clearly wasnt ableto transfer.Then he said he had an interview at this car place but we had to be here first.I had a job I worked per diem,I picked my own schedule and it was mostly every other weekend(which my parents babysat) and one or 2 days during the week when my husband was off so it worked well or my grandma would come and watch the boys. I quit to move here.Now we have no jobs,he has yet to have an interview. NO supportive family. I am just over it. He told me to move back to WI and he will stay here.I am about to at least there I have family that is supportive and helps out here we have the in laws that dont help at all. Their remark when seeing my children after almost 2 years of seeing them is how we are scaring them cause they were hyper and when i asked if my husband was like it they said no he wasnt this bad. I know they wont be much help and I dont know what to do. I am about ready to fly me and the kids back home. I dont want to stay here a year and then be stuck and miserable because my husband would probably never move back and this will be an ongoing thing. I know if I move back now he will most likely follow. He thinks he is still 20 and has all these friends. hes 30 and none of his friends even calll him one friend thats it. He said how he has all these people here. I have yet to see it. His sister isnt even talking to him.I am just over it.
What would you do?!