I was just reading someone's post and in a comment were talking about a certain law in that state and well its got the gears in my head turning. Well I'm a single mom, my DS will b 2 in July. I've struggled for a long time to find my place in this world and still struggling. U see as to some it may not seem like I'm tryn to grow up, make a life for me and my son, etc etc etc I really and truly am. I've struggled for a long time w/ the issue of pursuing child support and terminating my exs legal rights in terrible fear of my ex taking my DS. His name isn't on the bc, he's never seen the child except pics and once on web cam, he's never sent me a dime, he's not from this state even. I get told how I should file for cs but then someone who worked for a lawyer said it wouldn't be much worth it. I know in this state that if the father doesn't sign the bc by the 1st yr he has no rights anyways. Before I start rambling on I was wondering if anyone could help me figure out if I should look into terminating my exs rights and get cs or should I just leave it alone???
Honestly I could really use the money to help me out in so many ways but I'm between a rock and a hard place w/ my decision. HELP?!?!?!!!
The thing is I don't want ex in my DS life when we were together everything was nothing but lies, a family full of back stabbers and drunks. I don't want my DS around those kinda ppl. I'm from Louisiana he's from Indiana. Where he actually lives now is beyond me cause like I said previously he lies a lot. Technically u could call him a compulsive lier.
on Apr. 29, 2013 at 2:50 AM