My boyfriend and I have an almost two year old but did not become involved in a relationship until about 9 months ago. When we got together I knew he worked at a bar and worked horrible hours 3-10 or 5-12 or sometimes even 1 at night. I figured if things went forward with our relationship then he would get a different job or try and change his schedule. ( mind you he slept with one of his coworkers before we got together, so I really don't like him working there) I have my own apartment and he rents from his moms house. He takes our son usually just once.a.week overnight by himself and usually I.sleep at his house on thursday's and.sometimes Friday. So for spending time together its usually after work thur at 10 til fri morning and then I come back that.night and leave early Saturday. Occasionally he will sleep at my house on a different day after a lot of complaining about it.
The issue is after this long I want it to be going.somewhere. I want to see him more. I want us to raise our aon together. It feels like a half assed relationship to.me. he'd rather go home and play playstation then hang out with me or just wants his time. All this.just makes us fight all the time. I honestly don't know how to make it better at this point. Am I overreacting or would you be annoyed at how little you spend with.your boyfriend?