Biomom has visitation 2 a month from 10am-5pm we are lucky if she shows up. My husband has explained to her how hard it is on the kids that she is not consistent. The kids told the counselor that they don't feel safe with her. The counselor isn't sure if not safe is the word that best describes the child feelings so she is trying to get to the bottom of them saying that. This is the mother I posted about that canceled visitation to go out with friends but said she was sick. When she does show up she is late and always brings the kids back early.
So anyway she calls my husband yesterday to ask him to switch weekend because she has a dr appointment Saturday at 10:30 my husband told her no because a little over a year ago she filled contempt on my husband for her not seeing the kids all because she finally got served with papers for child support after being on the run for 3 years so we don't change a thing that the papers say just to avoid trouble. Before she filled contemp my husband was letting her show up whenever she wanted regardless of what weekend it was. The contempt was dismissed and she has to pay her child support. My question is what would you do in this situation we have the kids in counseling but it doesn't seem to help with her not making any changes. I also don't believe for one minute that she has a dr appointment.
on May. 1, 2013 at 12:21 PM