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i just need some advice to have a safe pregnancy next time

Posted by on May. 2, 2013 at 1:23 PM
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hi am new here am hispanic i just need some advice from an experience mom it been 2week since i lost my baby i was 5month pregnant an i was going fine till one friday after noon i started having some discharge but i though that was normal i went in to the hospital and for my surprise i was having a miscarrige the doctor toll me that my waterbad had ripoff an it was coming down so for me that was the worst day of my life it was a nightmare and the doctor were only giving me some options they told me that they could stich up my cervix but my waterbag was coming down so fast that their was nothing they could do about it so my only options was to wait for my babys birth and that has been my second baby i lost my first one went i was 17weeks pregnant but on that time i didnt know i was pregnant so the doctors didnt know the reason so now am just waiting to get my self together and wait for a bit but am scare the same thing may happen what can i do different doctor said am going to have a highrisk pregnancy.
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LuLuRex
by Bronze Member on May. 2, 2013 at 5:19 PM
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Hi I'm so sorry for your losses ((hugs)),

I think you should ask you doctor about getting blood tests done to see if you have any underlying issues. 

You may also want to click on the link below and join that group. The ladies in there understand what you are going through.

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LuLuRex
by Bronze Member on May. 2, 2013 at 5:20 PM

Hi I'm so sorry for your losses ((hugs)).

I think you should ask you doctor about getting blood tests done to see if you have any underlying issues. 

You may also want to click on the link below and join that group. The ladies in there understand what you are going through.

Join us in the Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss Support group

Bmat
by Barb on May. 2, 2013 at 8:15 PM

Welcome to the group!

I am so sorry about your loss.  Give yourself plenty of time to grieve. If you can, find a doctor who specializes in high-risk pregnancies. Your doctor should be able to give you guidance and information. Tell your doctor of your worries. Of course you are scared. ((hugs))

DragonMother10
by on May. 2, 2013 at 8:21 PM
Definitely go to a doctor that specializes in high risk pregnancy. Don't get pregnant until they figure out if something is wrong. Doctors don't exactly know why miscarriages happen, but the one during your 5th month, something was wrong and probably can be taken care of. Best of luck to you and welcome!
Reina13
by Bronze Member on May. 3, 2013 at 11:05 AM

 I am so sorry for you loss.

Since you have had two miscarriages, I would recommend seeing a specialist to see if they can determine why this is happening. Seeing a doctor that specializes in high risk pregnancies is also a good idea.


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by Ruby Member on May. 3, 2013 at 11:08 AM
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When did you get the stitch? They normally do that around 9 or so weeks. My SIL had 2 miscarriges. Then she had a full term pregnancy getting the stitch. Her first pregnancy before all this was uneventful.
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paty18
by on May. 6, 2013 at 9:37 PM

well i didnt get the stich they had me over night to see if my bag would  come down more and if it seem like it had come down a lot more  they werent  going to stich me up  but sunday morning it look bad my bag had come down a lot more and they told me it wasnt a good idea and the doctor told me that for my next pregnancy he would stich me up on my 12 or 13 weeks

paty18
by on May. 6, 2013 at 9:42 PM

thank you for your opinion and yes i will get well inform next time  and i got all the check up done and i also do my regular check up done every time it need it  the doctor didnt say exactly why it happen

MommyofSCC
by on May. 6, 2013 at 9:56 PM

I am so sorry for your losses, my heartbreaks for you.

Lashawn77
by on May. 6, 2013 at 10:16 PM
Sorry for your losses..((((hugs))))
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