So we were outside playing this evening and the neighbor kids, who just recently moved in, finally attempted to come over and play.. These kids are loud and annoying. Not the kind of kids I want my son around. Just yesterday they were yelling obscenities and waving middle fingers around... (I'm pretty sure the parents werent home, they were with a baby sitter so I minded my business.)
My son is 2. We spend almost everyday outside playing. The neighbor kids are always outside also, they've said hello a few times and I wave back but this was the first time they actually attempted to come over. They asked if they could play with my son and I said "he is too little to play, he isn't aloud to leave our yard" and they said "we will come over there" and started to make their way over so I approached them in an attempt to keep them out of our yard. (Obviously I should have done this differently!) I asked them their names and ages.. The little girl said she was in 5th grade and the little boy said 1st... They talked for a couple mins about where they went to school and I told them we had to go inside. They asked if we could watch them ride their bikes for a couple mins and I said ok but after about 5 mins I said we had to go in.
I'm afraid these kids will come over again next time they see us outside. How should I deal with this situation? I don't want to be rude, or hurt their feelings, but I don't want them ruining our outside playtime.