How would you feel if your kid's uncle paid them no attention?
My husband's brother and his wife have almost nothing to do with my kids. It wouldn't be so bad, but they take my stepchildren everywhere with them and my kids ask why they can't go, etc. All 4 kids are my husband's biological children, so there shouldn't be any different treatment. My BIL is a really nice guy, but his wife is very, very quite to the point that she doesn't even speak when she comes to my house or anywhere else that we see them. It's the weirdest thing I've ever witnessed. She seems happy to see the older 2 kids, but could care less about my two. It is a known fact she dislikes me, so I am sure it all stems from that. They take the other 2 kids on vacation every summer with them, my 10 year old daughter is noticing now that she is being left out. What should I tell her when she asks, why can't I go with uncle this year?