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i need some advise on my baby daddy

Posted by on May. 13, 2013 at 3:06 AM
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i feel he does not like me cause my body is changing with pregnacy.i thonk he might be cheeting. for the way he aks he turn his cell off he never wants to have intemesy
by on May. 13, 2013 at 3:06 AM
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Sunshine257
by Bronze Member on May. 13, 2013 at 3:09 AM
Some men are not attracted to pregnant women. My husband and I didn't have sex when I was pregnant he said even though the chance was slim we could lose the baby. The doctor said it was fine.
mommytobejz
by on May. 13, 2013 at 3:12 AM
thanx sunshine do u think i might be kinda over reacting. i do kinda start a fight with him to get attention after i feel bad
lilmama8408
by Silver Member on May. 13, 2013 at 3:28 AM
My dh said I'm more "acidic" when pregnant so sex isn't really enjoyable. He's also not attracted to pregnancy so sex is more on a mommy can't stand it anymore basis while pregnant.

Maybe he's looking at porn or something? If he's done a big 180 in actions id talk to him calmly and hear his side and explain how the different things make you feel.
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funhappymom
by Bronze Member on May. 13, 2013 at 9:42 AM
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I would sit him down and talk with him. If he is cheating, it's better to find out now and deal with it than to wait. (((HUGS)))


Reina13
by Bronze Member on May. 13, 2013 at 11:48 AM

I think you just need to be open and honest with him about how you feel. Ask him point blank if he is cheating. It is better for you to find out now, then later.

Good luck.

melissaaytes
by Member on May. 13, 2013 at 11:54 AM
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During the third trimester which I am in now and with our first baby, DH did not want to have sex lol.  Not sure what it is but the whole process freaks him out a little about pregnancy!!  He doesn't even want to touch my belly or see when she moves around.

Quoting Sunshine257:

Some men are not attracted to pregnant women. My husband and I didn't have sex when I was pregnant he said even though the chance was slim we could lose the baby. The doctor said it was fine.


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layedbackmama
by on May. 13, 2013 at 1:01 PM
This is weird for me to read, because while I was pregnant (many many yrs ago) I was 'hit on' soooo much! I was in the military with my first and single and let me tell ya all I heard was how beautiful I was and was asked out constantly! LOL Now with my second, I was with hubby and he couldn't keep away from me! So, sorry, I don't know how you feel. BUT DO talk to him. If you feel he is cheating, ASK! You should be able to tell if he's lying or telling the truth. Good luck.
atlmom2
by Platinum Member on May. 13, 2013 at 1:22 PM
Find out. If cheating, dump him.
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sarawags
by on May. 13, 2013 at 1:28 PM

If this is a reason for him to not like you he didn't like you to begin with - 

squocket
by on May. 13, 2013 at 1:28 PM

Did you write him a note or something? Maybe it is because he found out that you can't spell.

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