My only brother married girl 20 yrs ago. she was nice to me when she couldnt have kids and wanted to see us . When she had her kids, she never came around again.
When they bought a new home. we wanted to see the model with her. she didnt want to join us.
I have stayed away from her. I tried to do thing so our kids would know eachother. That has not happened. My kids know how she is , they dont think she is a nice person or mom.
My brother just told my mom that he has tried to keep them separate. He says "she has a Poor Filter".
She is not nice to my mom. She says invalidative things, she cuts communication. My mom doesnt know what she did. She says she is christian but doesn t act like it. She is a poor example. My brother was a good catch , a nice person , a good loving father to his kids. He is being walked on. They have financial problems which my brother trys to say is his fault. They got a boat and have never invited my parents over. We we not raised like this.
Its very sad to see MOM lose her son, She cried yesterday, she only talks on phone to him, they dont come to see and visit my parents, My dad can see the kind of person she is -Its sad. I do feel like an only child. Im glad my parents know my kids.
I would never want this to happen with my son.