in 2011 my husband(whom i wasnt with yet) got a girl pregnant, she told him she got an abortion and left him. Well he found out she had the baby (at 31 weeks because she had no prenatel care and wasnt taking care of herself) he went and saw the baby in the hospital she was so sick and hardly breathing on her own. well once she got better the mom took her out of state(never put him on the birth cert, he wasnt supposed to know about the baby!!!! she was mad he found out!) and didnt tell him!!! then when the baby was 10 months she randomly text him saying that she was giving the baby up for adopion and then we couldnt get ahold of her!!! thru some ultimate facebook stalking on my part and can gaurentee that the baby was given up for adoption!!!!! it breaks my heart!!!!! i would have loved that little girl like she was my own( i have 3 kids and pregnant again) we have no way of knowing if the baby is ok, last time my husband saw her she was on breathing tube and not breathing on her own!!!! she would be 20 months right now! i cant seem to get her off of my mind and just want to know if she is ok!!! i would never take her from her adoptive parents because that isnt fair to them( we have the dna papers stating my husband is the dad!!!!!) we just want to know if she is ok and to know that we love her!!!! any advice or know how to find her?? my husband didnt have any choices in this!!!! and is heart broken by it!!!!! he has her name tattooed on his arm and we still talk about her! i just dont know what to do!!!