I took my 21 mo old to the mall yesterday and I was so stressed out! She cried if she was in the stroller and if I let her out, she was all over the place destroying everything! I try to go when my hubby can keep her but he is out of town. My first didn't act like this and I saw so many well behaved kids her age just riding around chilling. I had snacks and toys for her but it didn't help! And she had her nap already! Suggestions??????