Hi - My good friend is getting married. She did not asked me to be bridesmaid but asked our other close friend. I guess they are closer but I was a bit offened as I thought she would ask both of us or neither. She (the bride to be) also had a baby recently and asked the same friend to be godmother - which put salt in the wound s a bit too, but I never let on. Anwyay I guess I feel a bit left out - although we all still do things together, as always...ok so here is the thing. Had the bride to be over for coffee and she asked me to make her the bacholrette cake . I dabble in dessert making and have worked in a bakery and did a bit of cake decorating there. I am reasonable good a it & make all myu kids bday cakes. But it is expensive and time consuming and she did say I'll pay you but I was like "no no, of course I will do it" I think I feel slight used - I already have gotten her a nice necklace for the bacholorette party and now I have to spend about $30 on cake stuff to make it. Am I being used (esp seeing as in her eyes we are not BFF's) or ahould I suck it up and do it for a good friend??