He isnt required to pay child support because he is 'disabled'. He recieves state funding for being bipolar.
I would think and hope it would be a pretty cut and clear case especially if he consented. When he started having to pay child support he admitted to asking his lawyer if relinquishing his rights would get him out of paying. They told him he would still have to pay arrears. I am not sure what arrears or all that is. He paid maybe two months worth and now doesnt have to pay anymore due to his 'disability'. Sigh. I dont want his money. I want my husband to adopt my two older ones (which he has raised since my second ws born and my oldest was almost 2). My son does not have my ex on the birth certificate. I dont know if that helps any?
I am trying not to sound bitter and I dont disparage my ex in front of the children. They dont even know who he is. They dont call him dad. They just get excited for grandma.
I only want to never have to deal with him ever again. My husband loves them with his everything and wants to adopt them. I want that as well partly because I dont want them to go to my ex if something were to happen to me. I truly fear for them where my ex is concerned.
So sorry that was so long. I really tried to cut a lot out. Please feel free to ask any questions if you need and I greatly appreciate any help.