Hello! I need some advice about my oldest 2 children. They are boys and are 17 months apart. They are 8 and 6. My concern is that my 6 year old is always trying to be like and do everything his older brother does. I know this is normal to some extent, but he just takes it way too far! He cries a lot and feels left out if his older brother gets to do something, even though he did the same thing the day before. We try to let them have time with me or their dad alone because they are together all the time. He acts out and wants attention. I try to give all my children equal attention, but I have 4 so it's a juggling act. They also fight, hit, punch, yell at each other. I feel like a referee all day and I just can't take it anymore! Help!