my husband got temporay custody of our 9 month old child..i feel helpless
i don't do drugs or have a criminal background. i have had a long distance realationship with my soon to be ex husband he filed speration from me and judge granted him temporary custody of our child ever since i tried to take her out of his mother's house . at court he said he wants reconcilation and filed joint custody but each time i ask can i come and visit her he would say u can see her 1 -2 hours at the most and that he decides where and he would convey the information to his lawyer in which she will tell my lawyer..where is the reconcilation in all this ?? how can i be a parent in this condition i live long distance 4 hours by plane she is 9 months old i have not gone to see her ever since the court hearing in feburary. i ask him how she is doing what are u doing for her birthday did she have her baptism there is no reply...i feel since i don't go and visit her the judge will favor him.. he lost his job last november and was getting unemployement checks since then..i am a nurse and i send him 500 to 1000 dollars a month past few months he didn't ask child support but i give it anyway...what do u guys think the judge will say especially since i have not gone to see her in the court papers filed it says i have to provide 48 hour notice and we mutually agree where i can see her there is not restrictions as to how long or how many times i can see her but my husband is making it this in which i can see her 2 hours at the most. what shall i do...i want to be a mother but feel i am going to loose her...what is the worst thing the judge can do to me...is this child neglect on my part?