I love him so much. He's been my best friend since we were teens. I don't want my kids to come from a broken home. I can't keep doing this tho.
For example, I found out he's been using his credit card to go out to eat at his lunch break almost daily (even tho I make him dinner to take), and has racked up $600 in debt because of it. Even when he's caught he lies about it.
I get so mad & so hurt, yet I'm always the one that goes to him saying lets talk about this, how can we help you? I don't feel like our relationship is even healthy. Do I leave? How do I leave? I'm a stay at home mom with 3 little kids. We don't have a savings, I don't have a job. I don't want to be divorced. I want to help him....but does he need help, or is he simlpy a jerk? What do I do???